How To Be Likeable When Everyone Thinks You're An Outcast

 Anecdote.

You'll never guess how easy it is to be likeable when everyone is on a distance.

For years I have been wracking my brains how to up my posts with a like or follow.  

Not for popularity but to know the mindset of the anonymous reader, how a person reacts to a post, or what drives an individual to "like".

In the personal reel of daily interactions, being liked seems to be easy.  

One just have to look presentable, and be up to the standards of everyone else's estimation.

But in the real scheme of things, bias and stereotypes abound personal conversations and interactions, where one can be labeled as a nobody, or a somebody.  

Someone to friend or someone to unlike.

I know one personality who took a career path reserved for the unique, and grew a base of followers and supporters by way  insulting his own or mouthing trivias about another.  

Like making fun of others' mistakes, punctuating how they are to be laughed.  This personality won popularity and gained friends by insulting his own circle.

Recently an anecdote taught me it is also true for others. And could be true for even an outcast.

In a jest I made a comment on my own kin, in front of another, pointing out how my kin, has acted in an awkward way.  

This tactless comment changed the anonymous face of the person in front of me as if liking that I insulted my own. 

Suddenly the person who was anonymous and acted always with a stolid face, showed gladness and smiles, when I spoke a careless slur, not for anything and not to gain a like. 

For once, I drew a welcoming reaction by being negative towards another.

It is a puzzle that some had to grow words that taint another's image in order to be likeable.

It is I suppose an unnecessary human interaction locally that signals, to win favor one must to step on another, to climb a bit higher.

It is not for the faint hearted though.

@social commentary/ lifestyle.

NRP

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